The Dating Manual
Testimonials
Hear what former students had to say about the 8-week program.
Anonymous
"This wasn't a class, this was an experience!! Yonci is so helpful and she approaches each topic with such grace. I have learned some things about myself and I see areas of self improvement as well. I feel that I have gained more knowledge about the real way a woman should carry herself especially while dating. Yonci created a space for us to be vulnerable and transparent. She never rushed us when we spoke. She was truly interested in hearing our thoughts and or concerns. I feel like I now attract a better quality of man since taking this class and would definitely encourage any woman to participate in future classes."
Edi
"Great program! Very detailed and structured. I liked that it was very laid back, yet super informative. My confidence is much better and I feel excited about dating going forward."
Anonymous
"Why didn't my mom teach me this stuff?!! This is what I needed to be better at dating."
Lindsey
"I loved it. I have no regrets about investing; I just wish it was longer. Better than I expected! I especially loved Yonci’s availability to us in real time during our dating situations. I loved the group chat and the community we shared. I loved the cute worksheets and I loved how the homework questions really allow you to dig deep! Since taking the course I’m more clear on what I will and won’t tolerate in dating and I know how to move on quicker when a man is not showing up the way I need. I learned the art of flirting and giving choosing signals. I no longer sit and mope around when something doesn’t work out; I am learning how to have fun during it all. It’s the lottery baby! I will keep playing until I get what I need! Eventually, I will win and prior I didn’t have that mindset."
Latasha Dunbar
"I really enjoyed the program. We got a chance to put some things into practice. I also enjoyed the group discussions. Its always good to talk things out. Now I am very cognizant of my feminine versus masculine energy. I intentionally try to be more feminine. I also focus on dressing better to appear more feminine."
Shelby
"The class had great amount of information. It exceeded my expectations! The part I enjoyed the most was the sisterhood bonding that we got to make. I enjoyed how we were all able to share our experiences to help each other out and we all made it through the course leaving no one behind. The class really helped me to enter my Soft Woman Era and not want to control the whole narrative to dating. I had never seen what healthy dating looked like until I joined this class. I am now ready to use what I learned in the real world in real time."
Kandace
"The program was full of vital information for the current dating climate. Yonci packed a lot in but she made it worth the time and the money invested. I learned a lot that I have implemented in how I conduct myself with the opposite sex. It exceeded my expectations and what I liked the most was that Yonci was down to earth, gave practical instruction and information. She met you at your level but still pushed you to want to be a better you in order to have the best chances to meet and possibly marry the type of man you desire. What has changed the most is my confidence when meeting men. Also, not getting hung up if things don't work out. Having my practical list of deal breakers, boundaries, preferences and must haves makes it easier to know how to move accordingly when meeting and dating."
Nia
"The setup of the class was ideal due to everyone being all over the country. It fostered sisterhood and accountability. 5 Stars! Better than I expected. What I liked was that the course gave insight into the red flags, pitfalls and a reminder in femininity which I loved. I appreciated the ability to chat after class as well as in the group chat sessions to get feedback & guidance in real time from the group. After completing this program I feel like I've been able to live in the moment and have fun."
Somalia
"I had a great experience! The information shared along with the worksheets were very informative. I like that we met every week on Zoom as it enhanced the experience. The best part was being able to ask questions and how the ladies were so open to sharing with one another. It was better than I expected. It didn’t feel like class but more of an experience…. I’m am now so much more aware therefore I can be more intentional.
Caitlin
"I loved the program. It helped me recognize some of the behaviors I had due to past trauma and how to correct the behaviors. It also helped me to stop over thinking the dating process!! Much better than I expected. I loved that there were assignments to complete & that we had the group chat to be able to communicate with everyone outside of class time. What changed the most for me is definitely not over thinking the "what if" when it comes to dating now."
Pricilla Aricea
With all of the City Girl content floating around this course was a breath of fresh air. Much better than I expected. This course is both edifying and encouraging. It is very apparent that Yonci has done her homework, done the work, and put effort into making the work understandable and applicable and in a way that is exciting. My hope and confidence in having the ability within myself to level up from the inside & out. I wish that it didn’t have to end and that I could put Yonci in my pocket for safe keeping."
Clemmy
"I thought Yonci’s program was an excellent mix of thought-provoking, insightful, motivational, encouraging and engaging experience. Better than I expected. The fact that as I journeyed through the course, I ended up deepening my knowledge about myself - truly amazing!! I’m definitely more in tune with myself and more aware of how men think.
Keenya
"It was great, I felt involved, welcomed and it was awesome to see women that want change no matter how small or big. Everyone was respectful of others' time and listened. I know I'm going to enjoy this experience and take away some very valuable information from all the ladies involved on this journey. Definitely exceeded my expectations. I liked the fact that I was allowed to voice my needs/concerns about my journey (introducing myself).”
Arlene
"The class was very informative! I kept thinking, "Ohh I needed thisssaaah!!" I loved how honest and open Yonci and the other participants were. I found this program to be helpful in that it illuminated things about men that I had either overlooked or never actually learnt. It taught me how to present my best self in dating situations, what to look for and how to glow in my femininity. I liked the detailed slides that were presented. Yonci has great insight and examples that drove the points home."
Chiquita
"It was insightful and I am glad I signed up. Better than I expected. I liked that I was given thorough explanations of why some of my actions or behaviors kept getting the same unwanted responses."
Kristin
"Yonci’s dating manual program is so beneficial for women who are looking for valuable information about the dating process. She gives practical advice so that women can be confident in who they are as divine feminine beings. More than what I expected going in. I loved “get to know you” conversation starters and other documents included in the course. The lectures were easy to follow and pack with actionable intelligent strategies to become the best version of your dating self. No one is giving out the information Yonci shares in her course."
Cash
"The program was great and very informative. [The best part was] the interaction in the group. We were able to learn from each other. Now I listen more, I think about what I say before I respond. I learned to just be quiet and observe."
Anonymous
"Overall it’s a great program, I have learned a lot about how men think and how to vet which are very good skills to know and the importance of playfulness. I can now see more of the inner work that’s required in order to be my best self and the best future mate."
Anonymous
"This program was so insightful. Definitely what I expected. I liked that the course was live and I also loved the group session."
Anonymous
"The program, overall, was very informative. Great info learned! I love the group chat and how everyone during these 8 weeks could share stories and learn from one another. Also, I liked the home work given. Biggest change is my confidence, my femininity awareness and how to use it!"
Anonymous
"It honestly was more informative than I had expected honestly. Loved to organization for sure. Loved the structure. Felt like a real class not just a Zoom with notes to go over. After doing the program, I realized how much more I need help and to work on myself more than anything else. I learned about men because not having a brother, uncle, dad or grandpa in my life to give me game I had to wing it with all the wrong answers to the test. I felt like I went to a great study group here.
Anonymous
"The course was very informative and helpful. Very necessary in these times to navigate & be successful dating in this age. What I liked the most was that the modules were focused & informative. There wasn't generalized information and Yonci took time to give real life examples. What changed the most for me was my outlook in how I engage with men."
Anonymous
"Overall, I really enjoyed having a safe space to discuss dating - both hearing about men's perspective but also taking time to evaluate what's my role in everything. I appreciate how open everyone was to share their experiences, which made me feel like I wasn't alone in some of the challenges I faced. The feedback and tips were very practical, but also challenging. I mostly enjoyed the last hour, with the opportunity to discuss and ask questions from each lesson. I also really appreciated the feedback on the dating profile. It was hard to be open to it, but definitely worth it! I think I have a better sense of what I can be doing to be more feminine in dealing with men and what their thought process may be. I think there are some minor tweaks like a lot of compliments or different ways of flirting that might open up better relationship opportunities with the guys that I do like."
Anonymous
"I like how personable it was and not just one person talking the whole time. And how we could test the ideas/strategies Yonci gave us."
Anonymous
"Great lessons. Some were reminders and some things I did learn about myself and men. I love the group session. Knowing that I am not alone in my search struggles for love. After taking the course, I definitely feel more knowledgeable."
Anonymous
"The program was very good overall. Very informative. I feel more equipped to handle dating challenges now. She gave clear information and examples. Accountability partners were a plus". The chance to share and obtain advice from others added a lot to the experience."
Anonymous
"I thought the program was a great way for me to learn the do’s and don’ts about dating and relationships, as well as gave me a better understanding of what femininity is and what it looks like. I like and appreciate how the psychology of what a majority of men think was incorporated into the program to have a better understanding and empathy for men when it comes to their own dating experiences. I like that I got a better sense of what men think and how they view women online, and shows me how I can show up online being authentically myself to attract, meet and date quality men who are actually interested in me and vice versa.
Anonymous
"I'm sure you hear this a lot, but you have a way of sharing information with us that doesn't make us get defensive."